Typing this from the fold down bed vinyl couch from the fifth floor oncology unit in the hospital.
(I realized my previous post failed and just needed up posting that sorry guys, and well sorry to my future self reading it as now the dates are wrong…. Movin on)
Listening to the auction machine go on and off every few seconds.
For two days we have been at the hospital. It all started yesterday morning.
I woke my mom up to tell her to check her bag (she has an illeostomy) to empty etc. Totally routine for us.
She was complaining her stoma hurt. “Hmm, that’s unusual maybe we need to ha he your bag” “yeah let’s do that real quick” she said. We got the bag off and began the changing process.
Thankfully it was first thing in the morning and she hadn’t eaten anything or drank anything, so I didn’t have to worry about having a fountain on my hands, or trying to jam as many marshmallows as she could tolerate down her throat. (Marshmallows stop the flow)
I noticed when I measured her stoma she had increased in size…. Nothing that necessarily alarmed me right away but it was absolutely interesting.
I took note of it and got the bag on, beautiful for as always, and proceeded to run around the house. They say illeostomies will leak within the first 1-2 hours. I topically try to be around for that as we had a horrible 5 bag change day and it would have been impossible to go in and out of work etc.
After about and hour or two and some fluids I noticed no output what so ever and her severe bloating…. That’s when I started being concerned.
She wasn’t in agonizing pain yet, but she wasn’t also having any way to evacuate her toxins. I called her osimy wound care nurse, all three of them that work together and could only reach Sam via text message. Sam told me call the main office and I did and got ahold of carol.
Carol explained she didn’t have as much knowledge as deb our angel nurse who is sooooo amazing. She also let me know we may need to go to ER since she couldn’t reach her.
So we decide to wait a little longer then we would go. Deb finally called us and was genuinely concerned. She told us to do a hot shower and hot tea or coffee and if nothing in ten minutes get to the ER.
Welp, one hot shower and hot cup of coffee we were on our way to the hospital.
Still no output.
Coffee allllllways makes me have that urge, and with illeostomy bags you don’t control or feel anything it just happens and nothing was happening.
At the hospital they did a CT scan and blood work. The CT scan came back showing her large intestine inflamed and suggests a blockage.
Fantastic. NOT.
His *genius* plan is to stick an NG tube in.
Now those of you who don’t know what an NG tube is, read up on it, or read people’s experiences with it. I had seen people swear never in a trillion years would they do it again to the point they verbally assault the dr until they find another solution. It is basically a feeding tube like thing that goes up your nasal passage to your stomach.
Instead of pumping nutrients it’s hooked up to light suction, to get the fluids and stuff out to attempt to evacuate the blockage.
Now my mom is so tough. So strong.
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